Being a Proactive Supervisor Doesn’t Mean Shooting from the Hip
That’s obviously true, but it’s also true that supervisors, especially line supervisors, really are the equivalent of first responders. They’re the ones whose early response to problems and opportunities, good and bad, can deeply affect what happens at work – in the near term obviously – but those ripples can travel a long way down […]
“Disappointed” in Love
“Disappointed” in Love. I hadn’t heard that one – that old way of phrasing things – in awhile. Such an understated, gentle way of putting it. This time it was said by a very lively 93-year-old guy, from somewhere around Lake Sunapee, being interviewed in an old Yankee Magazine about his still-successful tool-sharpening business. He […]
Helping Teachers
It’s incredible that we keep finding new teachers with the commitment and optimism to walk into today’s classrooms, and who succeed at conducting their classes just the way they’d always imagined back when they decided to become teachers. They’re becoming more rare – sadly. More and more, that fundamental interaction between a teacher and his […]
Effective Helping Means Finding the Right Match
Obviously, there are many things “different” today from what was true when I began this work. What’s not clear is what those differences actually are when it comes to helping the ability to address difficulties, helping children or elderly parents, achieving goals, or hoping to move forward toward a more purposeful life. Counseling, psychotherapy, coaching, […]
Emotional Intelligence: Meet Phil
In terms of Emotional Intelligence, Phil’s EQ was roughly in the sheltered workshop range.
High Road Audio Re: Divorce
Virtually everyone knows that what I’m saying on this audio is essentially, obviously true – but it’s so hard for almost everyone to pull off. Managing one’s feelings and navigating an intensely emotional situation while children and family are watching is the crucial task. Shaun Kieran Hello@ShaunKieran.com (207) 767-3864
Parents are examples – and foils
We know our children all too well, and they’re also mysteries. You’re riding the tiger and the task is to stay on, get back on if you fall off, and not give up on the ride. Shaun Kieran Hello@ShaunKieran.com (207) 767-3864
This “Intro” video is a good place to begin.
This video is a good beginning to get a taste of my approach to “helping.” Please let me know what you think. Shaun Kieran Hello@ShaunKieran.com (207) 767-3864
Managing and Parenting, Different (but the Same)
Good or effective management: it’s not about holding their hands enough, or wasting time wishing they weren’t who they are, but instead it’s about – first and foremost – managing yourself, modeling the adult perspective, and keeping the focus on the work.
No Retorts, Please: Think Before You Speak
Workplaces are far more relaxed and productive when the supervisor is comfortable inside his or her skin, doesn’t need to play one-upsmanship with the supervisees, really wants to know and understand what’s going on, and doesn’t need to let everyone know who’s in charge. They know anyway.
